Monday, 22 July 2013
Friday, 19 July 2013
To My Friends......
To My
Friends Who Are...SINGLE
Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase
it, the more it eludes you. But if you
just let it fly, it would come to you when you least expect it. Love can make you
happy but often times it hurts, but love's only special when you give it to
someone who is worth it. So take your time and choose the best!Love is like a butterfly. The more you chase
To My
Friends Who Are...SEARCHING
True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. Love is magic. The more we hide it, the more it shows; the more you suppress it, the more it grows.
True love cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor can it be hidden where it truly does. Love is magic. The more we hide it, the more it shows; the more you suppress it, the more it grows.
To My
Friends Who Are...NAIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
To My Friends Who Are...AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
To My Friends Who Are...POSSESSIVE
How to be in love: Fall but don't stumble, be consistent but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, and get hurt but never keep the pain.
To My Friends Who Are...AFRAID TO CONFESS
Love hurts when you break up with someone. It hurts even more when someone breaks up with you. But love hurts the most when the person you love has no idea how you feel.
To My Friends Who Are...POSSESSIVE
It breaks your heart to see the one you love happy with someone else but it's more painful to know that the one you love is unhappy with you.
To My Friends Who Are...PLAYBOY/GIRL TYPE
Never say I love if you don't care. Never talk about feelings if they aren't there. Never touch a life if you mean to break a heart. Never look in the eye when what you do is lie. The cruelest thing a guy can do to a girl is to let her fall in love when he doesn't intend to catch her fall.
To My
Friends Who Are...NOT SO SINGLE
Love isn't about becoming somebody else's "perfect person." It's about finding someone who helps you become the best person you can be.
To My Friends Who Are...HEARTBROKEN
Heartbreaks last as long as you want and cut deep as you allow them to go. The challenge is not how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them.
To My Friends Who Are...STILL HOLDING ON
A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and we just have to let go.
To My
Friends Who Are...ENGAGED
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
The true measure of compatibility is not the years spent together but how good you are for each other.
To My Friends Who Are...MARRIED
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry", not "where are you' but "I'm right here", not "how could you" but "I understand", not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."
Love is not about "it's your fault", but "I'm sorry", not "where are you' but "I'm right here", not "how could you" but "I understand", not "I wish you were", but "I'm thankful you are."
Monday, 15 July 2013
mY gF...
Now for the ones who have started reading this post with the anxiety of finding a lesbian love story, I need to make a confession that it is just a story of love like friendship, no sex included....
We met in 11th standard, almost 10 yrs back. She studied commerce and me science. And in the
college we studied the departments were enemies of each other. We happened to meet in a lecture of our vocational subject that both of us had chosen. The class was conducted in common for both the departments. That day I was late for the class and so there was no place left. I just threw a glance all over and the place was jam packed. But something caught my attention, there was a cute girl sitting alone on the first bench of the third row. Felt relieved to have found a place, I adjusted myself beside her and she welcomed with a beautiful smile. Since then i have been a fan of her smile. The class had already begun and so we did not talk. The class ended and we left without any conversation.
Next day the same story happened and she was beside me again with that cute little smile. OHH God!!! I love it so much. That day we spoke to each other, exchanging names and some silly taunts over the teacher and also waved each other bye, before leaving. From next day onwards it was almost like we had made a pact of sitting together whether or not there was any place elsewhere. I was a sort of tomboy those days. Fighting with boys was a hobby. We both developed a really great bond in a very short span of time. We started hanging out together, we were almost seen everywhere together. I used to be there near her class, would drop her home, walk around lingering on weekends. my friends had started teasing me over her as they were very sure that I would date a Girl. We were almost dating each other with me bossing over her for everything, whom she will talk to, who will she make friends with and with whom will she stay away, the typical boyfriends type ;-) But she being true to our relationship listened to every single thing I said.
We shared some really wonderful moments of our life. She made a part of my memories evergreen. She gave me moments to cherish all my life. She always made me forget everything the whole world. She was the company i loved to be in. She played every role a person could play for me.
Our jr.college days were fun until the day came when we both had to depart to study further. Those were not the days of active social media or even mobile phones. We were drifted apart, but only by distance. Until then we were almost addicted to each other. Living away was something we were not prepared for. And I too didnt tell her while going away as I was very upset about it. It had changed the route of my life. But then we had to accept it and move on. We communicated through letters and sometimes through phone calls. But something happened, the time and distance took over us and we grew away from each other. The time gap started to increase between our communications and fate played its foul play. We had almost turned into strangers. Time passed by and views about each other changed, we found no time for each other, got busy with new friends and had got over.
But then our bond was not that weak that could break off easily. We went through a hell lot of ups
and downs, ego issues, misunderstandings and everything that could destry any relationship. But our love was far more stronger to bear all the blows and still survive. I never had many friends but she had a lot of them. I always have stayed away from making friends with girls as i had survuved many knives in my back. But I never counted her in them. She had always been my love, my only girlfriend. We are back together now. Things have changed, we have changed, all grown up with the oldies attitude but our love is still young. It has sustained many bruises, silent tears, heartbreaks. The tree was left unwatered for a long time. The leaves have dried and fallen, the barks have become old, but it is till holding roots. It will take time to grow all over again. It was all my mistake for this condition to ever arrive. But now I have accepted my fault, and I am back to the tree attending, caring, loving, protecting it again. I dont know what I was running away from but I have realised what I have always wanted.
It is my responsibilty now to bloom back the tree and I am willing to do it. She has been one of those best things that have ever happened to me. I should have never hurt her. I cant ask her to forgive me, but I can atleast make sure to not do it again.
We met in 11th standard, almost 10 yrs back. She studied commerce and me science. And in the
college we studied the departments were enemies of each other. We happened to meet in a lecture of our vocational subject that both of us had chosen. The class was conducted in common for both the departments. That day I was late for the class and so there was no place left. I just threw a glance all over and the place was jam packed. But something caught my attention, there was a cute girl sitting alone on the first bench of the third row. Felt relieved to have found a place, I adjusted myself beside her and she welcomed with a beautiful smile. Since then i have been a fan of her smile. The class had already begun and so we did not talk. The class ended and we left without any conversation.
Next day the same story happened and she was beside me again with that cute little smile. OHH God!!! I love it so much. That day we spoke to each other, exchanging names and some silly taunts over the teacher and also waved each other bye, before leaving. From next day onwards it was almost like we had made a pact of sitting together whether or not there was any place elsewhere. I was a sort of tomboy those days. Fighting with boys was a hobby. We both developed a really great bond in a very short span of time. We started hanging out together, we were almost seen everywhere together. I used to be there near her class, would drop her home, walk around lingering on weekends. my friends had started teasing me over her as they were very sure that I would date a Girl. We were almost dating each other with me bossing over her for everything, whom she will talk to, who will she make friends with and with whom will she stay away, the typical boyfriends type ;-) But she being true to our relationship listened to every single thing I said.
We shared some really wonderful moments of our life. She made a part of my memories evergreen. She gave me moments to cherish all my life. She always made me forget everything the whole world. She was the company i loved to be in. She played every role a person could play for me.
Because once upon a time, we were best friends. And, yes, there's
been a lot of bad stuff in between. But none of that matters right now,
okay? You need me, I'm there. Any time, any place, anywhere
Our jr.college days were fun until the day came when we both had to depart to study further. Those were not the days of active social media or even mobile phones. We were drifted apart, but only by distance. Until then we were almost addicted to each other. Living away was something we were not prepared for. And I too didnt tell her while going away as I was very upset about it. It had changed the route of my life. But then we had to accept it and move on. We communicated through letters and sometimes through phone calls. But something happened, the time and distance took over us and we grew away from each other. The time gap started to increase between our communications and fate played its foul play. We had almost turned into strangers. Time passed by and views about each other changed, we found no time for each other, got busy with new friends and had got over.
But then our bond was not that weak that could break off easily. We went through a hell lot of ups
and downs, ego issues, misunderstandings and everything that could destry any relationship. But our love was far more stronger to bear all the blows and still survive. I never had many friends but she had a lot of them. I always have stayed away from making friends with girls as i had survuved many knives in my back. But I never counted her in them. She had always been my love, my only girlfriend. We are back together now. Things have changed, we have changed, all grown up with the oldies attitude but our love is still young. It has sustained many bruises, silent tears, heartbreaks. The tree was left unwatered for a long time. The leaves have dried and fallen, the barks have become old, but it is till holding roots. It will take time to grow all over again. It was all my mistake for this condition to ever arrive. But now I have accepted my fault, and I am back to the tree attending, caring, loving, protecting it again. I dont know what I was running away from but I have realised what I have always wanted.
It is my responsibilty now to bloom back the tree and I am willing to do it. She has been one of those best things that have ever happened to me. I should have never hurt her. I cant ask her to forgive me, but I can atleast make sure to not do it again.
I love you babes, have always been, and will always do. I had just got off the track all this time. But you were always there waiting with all the patience and not holding any grudges against me. I just
love you a lot and dont want to lose you ever in my life. You have always been there and want you to stay here forever.Because once upon a time, we were best friends. And, yes, there's
been a lot of bad stuff in between. But none of that matters right now,
okay? You need me, I'm there. Any time, any place, anywhere Sometimes in life, you find a special friend. Someone who changes
your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until
you can't stop. Someone who makes you believe that there really is good
in the world. Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked
door just waiting for you to open it. This is forever friendship. When
you're down and the world seems dark and empty, your forever friend
lifts you up in spirit and makes that dark and empty world suddenly seem
bright and full. Your forever friend gets you through the hard times,
the sad times and the confused times. If you turn and walk away, your
forever friend follows. If you lose your way, your forever friend guides
you and cheers you on. Your forever friend hold your hand and tells you
that everything is going to be okay. And i am the luckiest to find such a friend in you. I feel happy and complete because I need not worry. I have a forever
friend, and forever has no end.
Another month. Another year.
Another smile another tear.
Another winter and another summer too
But there can has never been and will never be another you. I love you...
Another smile another tear.
Another winter and another summer too
But there can has never been and will never be another you. I love you...
I drew this for u long back but never had an opportunity to share it with you. |
No measure of time with you will be long enough, but we'll start with forever. OK.......
Monday, 1 July 2013
Pandharichi wari....
Pandharpurchi vari known by various names like ashadhi vari(in the month of ashadh i.e. june/ july), kartiki vari(in the month if kartik i.e. October/november) has started on 29th june. My reason to write this is the palkhi will be passing through the city(Pune) today and everybody is discussing about what will be timing, which roads will be blocked, the alternate paths, etc. The hot topic until Ashadhi ekadashi will be the wari and the world famous warkaris.
Ashadh /Karthik are the months of this famous wari. On the
eleventh day after the new moon these
palakhis bearing momentoes of the famous saints of Maharashtra reach Pandharpur. The survey said that last year the count of the warkaris reached crores. These warkaris are free from all the discriminations like caste, creed, sex, religion, age, upper class, lower class, poor, rich, educated, uneducated and every other thing that could differentiate a human from another. It is the perfect example of unity one must learn from. In recent years the participation of the youth has also increased incredibly. And not to forget the foreigners have always had a craze about the wari and do visit in considerable numbers to have the most authentic and pure experience of bhakti. History narrates that the first wari went from alandi(pune) to pandharpur in 1291. Countless warkaris start this journey barefoot singing abhangs, chanting Vitthals name, listening pravachans, kirtans and dancing in the memory of their dear Lord Vitthal. These warkaris actually believe in him as a human, they think of him as their maybap, their dear friend.
palakhis bearing momentoes of the famous saints of Maharashtra reach Pandharpur. The survey said that last year the count of the warkaris reached crores. These warkaris are free from all the discriminations like caste, creed, sex, religion, age, upper class, lower class, poor, rich, educated, uneducated and every other thing that could differentiate a human from another. It is the perfect example of unity one must learn from. In recent years the participation of the youth has also increased incredibly. And not to forget the foreigners have always had a craze about the wari and do visit in considerable numbers to have the most authentic and pure experience of bhakti. History narrates that the first wari went from alandi(pune) to pandharpur in 1291. Countless warkaris start this journey barefoot singing abhangs, chanting Vitthals name, listening pravachans, kirtans and dancing in the memory of their dear Lord Vitthal. These warkaris actually believe in him as a human, they think of him as their maybap, their dear friend.
These warkaris walk for almost 15 days, singing, dancing
through the rains and cold. They do not very strange to understand in
todays world where we don’t even know the names of our immediate neighbours we
call these inknown people at our home for meals. This is their magic. People
might be thinking who are not much aware of this tradition that whats in this
for us, as it doesn’t take place everywhere. Maharashtra always had this
incredible history of great saints from all caste. They gave the message of
peace and harmony at that time, Non-discrimination to others, Loving the
environment, loving the someone (God) so much that ready to walks hundred's of
miles. I think these are the same message we need in our lives today which were
give to us to our forefathers hundreds of years back.
feel short of any luxuries of life. Wherever they stay they cook their own food. Some people invite them for meals. It is
feel short of any luxuries of life. Wherever they stay they cook their own food. Some people invite them for meals. It is
Lets not only talk about it for relation to the traffic jams
but know the real meaning of it which was known to our forefathers and helping
somehow to these pilgrimers. In this age of development we are forgetting our
root as a maharashtriyan or more as a human. Main reason behind writing this
post is cmon its high time for us to get pure, learn the tradition of selfless
devotion and belief, experience the power of truth and purity, bathe our souls
in sanity and start on our wari of becoming human again. Better late than
never.
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